Day 110 / 365

So I'm going to inturrupt this wedding week theme for a little side note about swapping, and a specific swap event taking place in New York this weekend. The Ethical Writers Coalition, which I'm a member of, is hosting this New York swap this Saturday in New York, the 4th bi-annual style swap of its kind.

Clothing Swap events are a Swaps are a wonderful way to make sure your unwanted clothing finds a new home while exchanging for some items that are new to you. 

Americans alone send 10.5 million tons of clothing to landfills each year, so whether you're buying upcycledvintage or second hand, you're helping to reduce these numbers ten fold, and if you're swapping, you're saving money while you save the planet too. 

I've written a number of times about my love for preloved, and even made a vlog, which I'll post below, about one of my favourite second-hand stores here in Paris.

Most of the members of the Ethical Writers Coalition are long time second-hand shoppers and swappers, so we all rallied together to share some of the pleasures of procuring preloved. I've included the stories they shared about their favourite second-hand shopping experiences and the best pieces they've given, swapped or found. I've included links to their beautiful blogs and publications too, which I follow and you should too! 

Below as well are my two Vlogs, sharing the story behind my favourite Heirloom piece and a Parisian second-hand story too.

If you're in New York you can get your hands on tickets and info for the swap here: - if you're not in New York, try searching online for a clothing swap near you, or join SWAPDOM, which allows you to do basically the same thing, but ONLINE.

Swap and Second Hand Stories From My Beatiful Blogger Buds

Faye Lessler, Sustaining Life
Ever since I was 10, every time I went over to a close friend’s house, I would bring a bag of clothing with me and come home with a few fun, new-to-me pieces to add to my closet. To me, swapping is about trying new things and creating stories around our relationships through our clothing!

Catherine Harper, Walking with Cake
I have a vintage watch and purse that I wear all the time. To me, these things get better with age and I like knowing that there’s a history behind the pieces I use on a regular basis. It’s fun to imagine the women who loved them in the past.

Alden Wicker, EcoCult
I have this one pair of pants I got from the last EWC fashion swap – well, I got two great pairs of pants actually. One is a pair of black jeans from Banana Republic that I wear constantly. The other pair of pants are the ones I’m thinking of, though. They’re super skinny, with a black-and-white abstract pattern and a lay-flat zipper in the front. Honestly? I’m sure they weren’t expensive to begin with. And I probably never would have bought them new. And yet, they were free at the swap, they were in my favorite colors (black and white) and they fit, so I took them home with me. I pulled them on one night to go out to a party at a nearby bar. I met my fiance there, and he took one look at me and said, “Your butt looks so good in those.” He grabbed my female friend and dragged her over to confer. She agreed. “Your butt. Amazing.” Now I wear them whenever I need a particularly sexy confidence boost.

I think we all buy different things secondhand than we do new. Shopping new is an exercise in careful selection. It is reasoned. You come in with a plan and execute. Secondhand shopping is all serendipity. You could go in with a plan, and that might sort of work in a large store. But more likely you’ll stumble on something you never knew you wanted, for the perfect price. And it will become a favorite.

Addie Benson, Old World New
“Reuse, sustain, make old new again.”  That’s my motto, and my favorite old things to make new again are clothes.  Finding timeless pieces at thrift stores, vintage shops, garage sales, and even at clothing swaps make for a great curated closet.  Sometimes I’m amazed by my finds and wonder how anyone could have ever let them go, until I head to my closet and realize my style has evolved and that I, too, need to donate or swap some things that I once loved to don regularly.  The cycle of donating clothes and finding more second hand clothes to wear is exhilarating.  It is never the same twice, but it is always a fruitful adventure that yields endless style possibilities!

Leah Wise, Style Wise
I attended my first swap two years ago, right before two of my dear friends moved away. We laid everything out in a friend’s living room, sipped wine, and had a lovely time trying on each other’s clothing. Even though we were all different sizes, we found lots of things that fit. Plus, it’s so wonderful to have a few items to remember my friends by now that they live far away.

Elizabeth Stilwell, The Note Passer
I find there's a delicate balance between holding tight to items I love and letting go of ones that no longer add value to my life. But once I decide to let go, I'm happy to see the thing change hands and bring pleasure to someone else. I love our swaps because I'm able to see someone delight in one of my items in person—squealing, grinning, and mugging for the camera with their new love—it's quite different than dropping it off at a thrift store to go who knows where. The excitement for both giver and receiver is intoxicating. I highly recommend it!

Sara Weinreb, IMBY and Necessary Trouble
A few years ago I bought a vintage coach purse at a flea market. I love it and use it all the time! It is such great and sturdy quality, and I wouldn’t have spent the money on it new, plus I love the worn-in look to it. Added bonus that my fashion student cousin was with me and authenticated that it was real!

Stephanie Villano, My Kind Closet
I think there’s a romantic element to swapping or buying secondhand. I like to imagine who was wearing or using the piece of clothing or home decor (my husband and I like to shop secondhand to decorate and LOVE antique mirrors and nautical stuff) before me and I often come up with a story in my mind about what that person was like and how they styled it. I’d like to think that the person who owned the pair of boots, piece of clothing, or artwork before me would be happy to know that it has found a new home and is still being enjoyed.  I also sometimes consign old items with a local consignment shop, and I really take pleasure in seeing someone around town wearing something that I know used to be mine.

Renee Peters Model4greenliving
I have a pair of boots from my favorite consignment shop that I have worn almost every day, for the past two winters, all over New York. The soles are worn and the heels need repair. The effort to restore them pales in comparison to the joy that they bring me. They have endured countless city miles, northeastern arctic chills, and Parisian cobblestone streets. They have also shared some my best memories and proudest moments.

Whether worn for work or for play, these boots are an essential in my life. I am thankful for whoever resold them rather than throwing them away. They gave an old item new life. They prevented more waste from entering our ever-crowded landfills and provided me with the perfect shoe for my needs.

That is why, whenever I am ready to lose the items that no longer serve me, I am happy to participate in a clothing swap with my friends and neighbors. I know that my unwanted things could bring even more joy to someone new, just as those boots have for me. And who knows… maybe I will find my next favorite thing at the clothing swap too!

Chandra Fox, These Native Goods
Whenever I go home to visit my mom a closet raid is a must, we have always loved swapping clothing. It is very nostalgic sorting through the pieces with her, clothing she wore and loved throughout my childhood. Luckily for me she is always happy to share, to see the pieces continue on to new adventures. Last year she handed down a pair of Levi's that she had set aside for me. I gave her the jeans as a gift back in the 90's, they no longer fit her so she wanted me to take over ownership. My mom loves gardening and she did a ton of it in these jeans. They have a slight brownish tinge that doesn't wash out as a reminder of that and the fit is a little boyish, with a serious case of cowboy crotch. But they are perfect, I hope one day to pass them down to my own daughter.

Bianca Alexander, Conscious Living TV
As part of my commitment to Conscious Living, for the past two years, I’ve sworn to buy no new clothes. To me, swapping is the new shopping! Whether attending a swap party with some of my most fashionable friends, vintage hunting, or treasure-troving at the local Goodwill, nothing beats second-hand style. I already have so many beautiful pieces in my wardrobe, so I try to be extra-mindful of only incorporating items that, in the spirit of Marie Kondo, truly bring me joy. One of my favorite buys is this ‘60’s leopard-like vintage faux fur coat I picked up at American Rag in San Francisco - it’s vegan like me, one of a kind and goes with everything in my closet whether I dress up or down. I get compliments each time I wear it, and it’s so unique, I’ll never see a doppelgรคnger. Vintage, secondhand and recycled fashion is not only timeless, it’s the most conscious way to make a powerful fashion statement.